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		<title>Need is a Four-Letter Word</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 17:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>RockerGirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Need. It’s like a dirty word… needs are something that were ignored, in many survivors, from the moment we entered the world. The people around us taught us, by precept and by example, that our needs were unimportant, inconvenient, unwanted, things that would get us in trouble, things that would get us punished, things that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=407&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Are you proud of yourself?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 16:31:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>RockerGirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Pride is seldom delicate; it will please itself with very mean advantages.” ~ Samuel Johnson I mentioned this topic briefly in my last post, but I thought maybe I would expand on it a little more. (Or a lot more…) Pride is a basic human need, and something that every human has in some measure. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=403&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>I don&#8217;t give a damn &#8217;bout my reputation&#8230;*</title>
		<link>http://rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com/2010/07/09/i-dont-give-a-damn-bout-my-reputation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 18:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Fox network is rerunning the first season of Glee this summer. I don’t know if anyone else watches this. I never saw it on tv, but I’ve seen most of the first season on Hulu – it makes me laugh, and I like the music, and occasionally it presents things in a way that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=400&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The value of a negative comparison</title>
		<link>http://rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com/2010/07/02/the-value-of-a-negative-comparison/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 16:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>RockerGirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Do you know where you’re going to? Do you like the things that life is showing you? Where are you going to? Do you know?” ~ Diana Ross (theme from Mahogany) I have an acquaintance who is never having a good day. If you ask him how it’s going, he always says it could always [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=397&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Healing is a forward journey</title>
		<link>http://rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com/2010/06/11/healing-is-a-forward-journey/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 17:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[At some stages of the healing journey, particularly the early stages, it can be really helpful to find a sense of community among others who share the same struggles as you. It can be validating to hear that others experience things that are similar to your experiences, and it can be a great thing to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=387&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Take Me To Your Leader</title>
		<link>http://rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com/2010/06/04/take-me-to-your-leader/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 17:19:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week, I wrote a post that I thought was going to be about one thing, but which adamantly insisted on being about something else altogether. Not that the need for sources of real inspiration in the survivor community is not an important topic – it’s really important. So often we are left taking “inspiration” [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=384&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Looking for Inspiration</title>
		<link>http://rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com/2010/05/28/looking-for-inspiration/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 19:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am not a big fan of change. I want everything I do, everywhere I go, the people I know and my relationships with them, to remain in a fixed and unchanging state so I always know what to expect. However, I am also committed to progress and healing – and if there’s one thing [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=379&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>A defense mechanism gone wrong</title>
		<link>http://rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com/2010/05/21/a-defense-mechanism-gone-wrong/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 17:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have always hated the suggestion that it’s my outlook on things (the world, the day, other people, activities, life) that affects my experience with them. It sounds so trite, so corny… so… stupid… kind of reminiscent of people saying that you can “just snap out of” a depression, or that the past is the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=371&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What&#8217;s on my mind today&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 17:47:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[(A topic for when real life is too busy for blogging.) I saw a story on the news a while ago, cautioning people not to look to Twitter for medical advice because there was no quality control on the information posted there. It nearly made me fall over. I mean really… were people really looking [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=343&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>No More Silence!</title>
		<link>http://rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com/2010/04/09/no-more-silence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 19:22:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Too many writing projects and not enough time! I guess it’s time to drag out another old chestnut from the storage trunk of thoughts and see if I can make a blog post out of it… Have you ever noticed the tendency of people to feel bad for “telling on” someone else? As survivors, of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=rockingcomplacency.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5605989&amp;post=339&amp;subd=rockingcomplacency&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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